| Location | Belvedere |
| Age | 62 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 19/12/1945 |
| Date of Death | 03/07/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,559 since 05/07/2008 |
| Creator |
My kind, gorgeous, lovely Dad
I remember all the things you used to say,
The way you could wipe my tears away.
I remember all the times we shared,
And I knew you were the only person who cared.
I remember always looking up to you,
When I needed advice, I knew yours was true.
Now, when I need help, I don't know what to do;
As fate would have it, I'm living life without you.
I know it's not just me you left,
And the pain I feel I just can't confess.
Our family, our loved ones, all hurt too;
We now no what its like to be without you.
I Love You Dad and miss you so much!
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Christmas Without You Gary
Christmas without you here with me Gary,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under the Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here Babe,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
ALWAYS AND FOREVER
Your Very Sad Wife Su xXx
Wish we could be together
Thinking of you
Makes the miles disappear,
Together we're looking at bright decorations,
Enjoying what we like to do,
Thinking of you makes the miles disappear~
For you're missed very much
All year through…
So just because you're
Far away, don't think
For a moment that you're forgotten.
I'm thinking about you because loving thoughts travel far,
And wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
And wishing you were here - ALWAYS Su xXx xxxxx
Harvey's 5th Birthday
Dad today is Harvey's 5th birthday he finally made it to 5!!! I am so glad he looks like you as a boy I am hoping and praying he will be like you when his older because he wont go wrong if he is. He misses you like we all do he don't understand why we cant just pop up and see you then come back (I know that would make you laugh) The kids miss you terribly as I do god I so wish you could come back Dad. Love you forever!!!! XXXXXXXXXXXX
Hello Babes - it's now the 3rd October and 3 whole months since you were taken away from us. I wonder if you miss me as much as I miss you - silly question cos I know what the answer would be. I keep going from day to day - just existing - nothing is the same any more without you here and I hate it. It's very lonely without you Babe - even with people around all the time all I want is you back in my life beside me. There are so many thing I need to tell you, so many things to talk about, so many things to discuss, so many things we were going to do, places we were going to see together - it's just not fair.
I can't say anymore here Gary - just know that I love and miss you so very, very much sweetheart.
Sleep tight till we met again.
Love You to bits. Su. xXx
Hiya babes - I'm so glad Andrea managed to load your music - she had so many problems with it. These songs are what we played at your funeral. The kids chose Luther Vandross and I chose Fly by Celine Dion - it just seemed so right. It was when I was at the hospice with you and it just came on on my ipod when I was trying to sleep but couldn't. I couldn't tell you - it seemed so wrong to tell you - I'm so sorry. Of course you know the last one - cos you chose it yourself. Everyone had a smile on their face when the priest told everyone it was your choice and that you wanted everyone to go party - that was just so you. It really lifted the mood I can tell you.
Miss you so very much Gary. I just want you back here with me sweetheart.
Seeing Steve and Karen tomorrow at Mum's and then Mo and Con have invited me over for dinner on Sunday - I've never been over there without you - it's just not going to be the same - nothing ever is now.
Sleep peacefully now. Love you. Su xXx
P.S. Great news about Vik and Lenny - thank you.
We have music!!!
At last Dad we have music on your site, trouble is everytime I come on here now I will be crying, and I know everyone else will be too!!! Love you forever Dad and miss you like crazy XXXXXXX
Missing You
Sorry i havent wrote to you for a little while, but i think of everyday. Frankie getting really big and cutting her teeth. Lenny really enjoyed his birthday but it wasnt the same without you here gal with your video camera and taking hundreds of pictures.
Lenny keeps asking where his gan gan gary is, went Spain last week and lenny waved to you out the window of the plane bless him.
And as for wes he doesnt change his brought another bloody dog home, and i know your laughing up there gal but how many dogs is your son going to bring home.
I had a hospital appointment today and i hope you were with me cos it comfort me to think you were, i know if you were here you would be ringing me to make sure i was ok.
The best fathering law and gan gan in the world i miss you soooo much love you gal forever and always xxxxxxxxx
Please visit soon xxxx
Hiya Blue Eyes - god how I miss them twinkling.
Just wanted to say thanks. You know why.
Left a rose on you today.
Love you so much and missing you more every day.
I really need a cuddle today. I so wish I could give you one right now.
Love You Always. Su xXx
Hiya Babes
As you probably know the kids came down for dinner yesterday and it went well - there was a spare seat for you!! We all missed you very, very much - your laughter, your jokes. We had to do 2 sittings - one for the little 'uns then one for all of us. It was great to have them all here - all together again, but I so wish you had been here to complete the family.
Even though there are so many of us I still so lonely - who can I share my thoughts with now. And you know I'm not as good with words of advice as you always were. Keep a watch over Lewis and Julie - they are finding it so hard at the moment - only time will tell if they pull through this together - I'm patying with you that they do.
I popped around to see Lenny on his birthday tonight - he asked Vik for Gan Gan Gary's juice - it's great to hear him ask for it - brought a lump to my throat though I can tell you!! Frankie's cutting more teeth so you was a bit grizzly.
For the first time today - just for a fleeting moment I thought I'd better call Gary cos I hadn't heard from you today - then again it hits me like an axe through the heart that I can't. I still phone you every day to listen to your voicemail - sorry but I just can't cancel that contract!!
Please help me get through this - I still can't imagine living without you my lover.
I'm so very tired, but I just can't sleep well - I feel like I'm on autopilor at work.
Well - sleep tight - those blue eyes must be so twinkling now.
Love you forever sweetheart - with all my heart.
Speak soon. Su xXx
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